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Have a Hot Date With Woman
on Valentine's Day!
Asking her for a date:
* Ask her out in person. Your conversations together is an opportunity for
you to discover if both your personalities and ideas are attuned with each
other, before you do decide to ask her out for a date.
* When calling through the phone. Don't forget to mention to her the
conversations you had. This will
give her the impression that
you do listen, making her feel important. Then if you feel that it is time
to ask her, go ahead; ask gently, not in a demanding manner.
* Ask when you both are alone. Never ask a girl out on a date in front of
others, like her friends. This will either embarrass her, and may say yes
or embarrass you, if she says no.
During the date:
* Look good, be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time
be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. It must
correspond to the place with which your date is set. Make a good
impression, so you can charm her and she can be proud of you.
* Do not be late. Prepare for the big day ahead. Make the necessary
reservations and planning for your date. If you have planned for it, she
will be impressed that you did put some effort on your night together. Be
sure that during the "big day" you have no appointments so you won't be
cramming and be on time.
* Present Her: Presentation doesn't mean that you have to gift her with a
Diamond Necklace. Don't give something you can't afford to. A gift with
"pure love" is always "GIFT" irrespective of its value. A perfume bottle,
a Romantic Novel or even a Bikini works well!
* Be polite. Be sure to make her feel good by complementing the way she
looks. And when seated at the table, turn your cell phone off. This will
signal to her that you are very much interested in your moment together.
(Say, "you are beautiful honey") Don't use the words like sex babe, horny
etc! Her mind is very sensitive like her body
* Say her name. Make it a point to say her name ever so often in your
conversations, to make her feel at ease and special.
* Smile. Aside from putting up a positive attitude, your smile is an
indication that you are happy to be with her.
* Have a Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won half your
battle. This means that
she is having a nice time
and creates a positive atmosphere. This will be an occasion she would
remember, because she had fun!
* Be attentive. Listen to what she has to say or is saying, do not
interrupt. Let her finish, before you state your opinion and make eye
contact.
* Be honest. Let her get to know you by telling her what you do, what
interests you, don't make up stories.
If she will not like you for
who you are, then she is not worth your time. Show interest in her too, by
asking her about her work, hobbies and her likes. Be sensible and honest
in initiating such conversations.
* Relax. Do not worry that your date is not having a good time. Go ahead
and ask her. Just manage yourself well and enjoy the evening. Keep the
conversations open and ask questions. Be sincere.
* Do not pretend. Be yourself. Pretending into somebody that you're not,
will not work in the long run. The truth will always come out sooner or
later. It is a rewarding feeling if someone is drawn to you for who you
really are.
* Never compare. It will be very unfair of you if you compare your date to
your past girlfriend. Keep in mind that she is a totally different person
with her own personality. Take the time to discover her; you might be
pleased if you do. Comparing won't get you anywhere. An important thing to
remember, do not ever
articulate your comparisons
with your date, this will surely lead to disaster.
Many guys tend to describe their previous date with current date ;( good
or bad) this is absolutely wrong. Every girl is different; every girl has
different mentality and attitude. And remember girls never like
comparison!
* Never tell your date about your break-up. Keep in mind that you asked
her out so you both could have
fun together. She is not
your therapist, so do not recount your past relationship. Burry the past
and move
on. Here is a woman in front
of you who is interested to know you more. Get to know her too, initiate a
conversation that could lead to a common interest.
* Enjoy. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman could sense if
you are enjoying or not. Don't
stress yourself trying so
hard to make it "The Perfect date" because it won't be. But you both can
enjoy it. After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the
first place. Be spontaneous and have fun.
* Not Just About Sex: The main purpose of special dating is NOT just
having sex! Don't show your sexual craving by behaving like a pervert.
Instead let her invite you for "that!" Every second you spend with her
should be enjoyable to her. And when her body and mind is full of joy
you'll get unbelievable sex from her!
(oh, orgasm?)
Give her what she wants and get what you need from her!
Be a Gentleman, She Love!
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